The magic of humility - humble leadership is on its way

Are you also observing the change that is taking place in our world?

It feels a bit like a veil is being lifted, floodgates have opened and the captain has lost control over the ship. However, the passengers are learning to steer it themselves. 

How are the passengers going to steer that ship? We cannot solve problems, the way we have created them. If our problems were created by greed, control, manipulation, arrogance and ignorance then they will not be solved that way.

At some point, the collapsing point is reached (even in our personal lives). History has taught us that lesson over and over again.

Each generation has a different experience with history and thus keeps forgetting what led to the collapsing point.

We learn about it in history classes and maybe from our parents or grandparents. However, it is different if you have been through the experience yourself or read books about it. 

In times of uncertainty, it is in everyone's DNA to seek safety, guidance and strong leadership.

Social media and influencers are increasingly taking on that role. Politicians are still trying to steer and control the ship but many people have lost their trust in the kind of leadership that we have been witnessing over the past years in particular. 

My children were the first generation to grow up with "gadgets". As a mum I had to learn to navigate through unknown territory. Teenage years are challenging enough but add social media to it and it can be a recipe for disaster. It can also be an opportunity for interesting dinner conversations. 

Children learn more from what we do than what we say. They recognise hypocrisy pretty quickly.

Whenever my children come to me to talk or just feel the need for a break from studying or their gadgets, I turn towards them. We never know what's on their mind at that moment.

It is a natural part of growing up. The circle of security® explains it quite well. The older children are the longer they go away to explore but they keep coming back to check in with the parents.

We create a safe space for them to return to. No matter what TikTok influencers tell them, as long as they feel safe and seen by at least one parent, they will figure it out by themselves who to follow. 

If they don't have a safe haven at home, they will look for it elsewhere, just like all people do. The more connected we are to ourselves the more we can recognise people and leaders who mean well and those who are trying to manipulate and deceive us. 

I am sensing and witnessing that we are collectively, and step by step, preparing the path for humble leadership.

Right now, we still see a lot of loud and very opinionated leaders, politicians and influencers with very little openness to other people's experiences.

At the same time, humble leaders are given space on podcasts and similar to share their experiences and wisdom.

Many of them represent my or an older generation but I have also seen some quite young people that truly impressed me with their presence, level of reflection and awareness.

Some of them are soft-spoken and others energetic. However, they all seem observant and honest as they share their valuable and most of all vulnerable experiences in an empowering and compassionate way.

They are starting to appear quietly and people feel deeply connected to the calm and peaceful presence that they exude. Men and women.

Maybe they are the wisdom keepers, sharing their wisdom now.

They are not looking for followers or to be in the spotlight but intend to empower people instead. They come from various backgrounds and professions. Many might not even be on social media at all. 

Their life is not about them or their success. It is about sharing their experiences that led to transformation with the hope of inspiring and supporting others. 

It might be the case that many people will have to overcome pain and loss in the coming years. However, many have walked that path already and will be able to give compassionate support, empowering guidance and hold space mindfully. 

Being humble is a strength. It does not mean keeping quiet, lacking clarity or the ability to make impactful decisions.

Humble leaders have often been through many difficult experiences and had the courage to heal and learn from those experiences. They are aware of their own patterns and can name and tame them. 

Are you observing those changes?

What are your thoughts on humble leadership?

Can you identify and name your own patterns that might be getting in the way of humble self-leadership?

Do you recognise when you are being deceived and when there is a true intention of acknowledging each others needs and desires? What values would you like to share with children, the next generation leaders? 

Coming up next: The magic of systemic constellations. So, stay tuned...

Have a magical week!

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